Lots of femme queers adore butch women and vice versa so here are the top reasons why butch and femme relationships are simply the best. The days of sharing clothes, grooming products and perfume are long gone in a butch- femme relationship. There is no chance you are going to look like identical twins when you go out and its cool that neither of you have to worry that your favourite boyfriend jeans or designer heels are going to be pinched by your partner. Who is Jack and who is Rose?
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9 Reasons Why Butch/Femme Relationships Still Rock – KitschMix
Before meeting my wife six years ago, I had little to no experience with masculine identified women. To be honest, I dated her with the intention of experimentation. I was intrigued by the butch-femme dynamic that seemed to be so steeped in lesbianism and wanted to see what it would be like. Looking back, I realize how shallow and selfish I was to use her in satisfying my own curiosity, but the universe got me back when I ended up falling hard for a woman who had never so much as used concealer to cover a zit. I had no choice but to broaden my perspective in order to see things through her eyes. My intention is to provide you with things to consider when choosing to date a butch woman; things that you might not have considered before.
9 Reasons Why Butch/Femme Relationships Still Rock
I was puffing on a cigarette outside of a lesbian club, looking all bleary-eyed and angst-ridden when an older dyke, probably about fifteen years my senior, came sauntering on over to me. I sighed. None of my friends will talk to me because I drunkenly hooked up with one of their exes. Had I blacked out and gone hiking? Here are 30 rookie mistakes I made, that I finally stopped making by the time I hit 30 and became the seasoned lesbian I am today.
You can see a very classic-looking butch-femme couple in action, in the news and showing up looking very butch and very femme. Ellen DeGeneres is a great example of a butch woman coming into her comfort zone. Her wife, Portia, is the classic femme. A butch lesbian identifies as strong and able to do lots of things that require physical ability. She sees herself competing with guys like a tomboy does and looks more masculine than feminine in appearance.