Cheating is one of those topics that just won't go away. There's always a new celebrity who confesses he or she had an affair, cough, David Arquette , cough. But what happens with the cheating happens much closer to home? What do you do if you suspect your own partner is cheating? Last week, I had the pleasure of speaking with Connection Coach and motivational speaker Jonathan Sprinkles at length about cheating. Jonathan is an award-winning national speaker and author ; his message is simple:
Suspect Your Guy Might Be Cheating? Here's What to Do. And What NOT to Do!
4 Simple Ways to Find out if Your Boyfriend Is Cheating on You (for Girls)
So, without further ado, here are the best things to do if you think your partner is cheating, according to psychotherapist and relationship expert Alex Carling. It might seem trivial, but making a for and against list can help you face reality head-on. Is the relationship worth pursuing if your suspicions of cheating are confirmed? Can you move forward after a cheating incident? These are all important questions to ask yourself, and a pros and cons list can definitely help put that reality into perspective. Drawing a list helps you externalize get it out of your head and see it from a different perspective — this may be enough to soothe you or encourage you to take direct action.
Signs Your Spouse Could Be Cheating
You may be wondering if your boyfriend is being faithful to you. Maybe he is treating you differently, spending less time with you, being super secretive, or not putting effort into the relationship anymore. However, it is best to examine his behavior, ask him questions, and look for evidence before you accuse him of cheating. In addition to changes in his routine, watch out for new behaviors, such as moodiness, secrecy, paying more attention to his appearance, or picking fights. June 10,
Infidelity is one of the more challenging problems faced in a relationship. While many people are blindsided if and when they find out about a spouse or partner cheating, others may suspect it because of actions that are out of the norm. While everyone is different, and few signs of cheating are definitive, there are certain behaviors that, together, may back up your unfortunate hunch. Behavior changes, curious actions, and odd occurrences can certainly indicate that a partner is having an affair. That said, it's important to remember that that is not always the case.